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Feb. 26th, 2008

who said luck was needed?!

got this article fr the online new paper, pretty long article. take some time to read. its a researcher who spent 14yrs exploring the phenomenon of luck. read on to see whether there r such things as lucky or unlucky pple.


The Electric New Paper :
You can be your own lucky charm
Research shows luck is not in the stars, but in behaviour
BLACK CATS, the number 13, lucky coins, finding a taxi at 6pm on a rainy day, meeting your one true love while waiting for the MRT - some call it luck, but is there some science to superstition?
By Chua Wei Yng

25 February 2008
BLACK CATS, the number 13, lucky coins, finding a taxi at 6pm on a rainy day, meeting your one true love while waiting for the MRT - some call it luck, but is there some science to superstition?

Professor Richard Wiseman, a psychology lecturer at the University of Hertfordshire in Britain, has spent the last 14 years exploring the phenomenon of luck. He even wrote a book - The Luck Factor - about it.

ProfWiseman makes a distinction between luck and chance. Chance is when you win from playing 4-D or find $10 on the street.

However, when people say they are lucky, it seems to be a turning point in their lives. For instance, luck may mean meeting their future spouse, having a winning business idea or being at the right place at the right time.

In 1993, he started The Luck Project, where he invited people who considered themselves exceptionally lucky or jinxed to come forward. He ended up with 400 volunteers.

He told The Age: 'I thought the differences between lucky and unlucky people would be shown to be delusional.'

One unlucky volunteer, a 54-year-old publisher, said he had been bankrupt, unemployed and suffered a heart attack. His only lottery win turned out to be a printing error.

Another, a 27-year-old flight attendant, said she had a reputation for being jinxed. One of her first flights made an unplanned stopover due to an abusive passenger, another was struck by lightning and a third was forced to make an emergency landing.

On the other hand, lucky volunteers had similar stories - they got their dream job, a loving family and were happy in all aspects of their lives.

At the end of the 10-year project, ProfWiseman concluded that no one is born lucky. However, the volunteers who considered themselves lucky had four basic principles in common and were using these to generate a chain of fortunate events.

1)Make the most of your opportunities

In one of the experiments, ProfWiseman gave volunteers a newspaper and asked them to count all the photos inside.

The unlucky subjects took about two minutes to complete the test, but almost all the lucky volunteers saw a half-page advertisement on page two with large text that read: 'Stop counting. There are 43 photos in this paper.'

Another ad, deeper in the paper, read: 'Stop counting, tell the experimenter you have seen this and win $250.'

All those who considered themselves unlucky missed both ads, as they were fixated on looking for photographs.

He therefore concluded that lucky people are more flexible in their thinking and open to new experiences and places.

'They have no goal in mind,' he said. 'A lucky person fires an arrow in the air, and where it lands, they draw a target. 'Oh, look,' they say, 'another target'.'

2)Listen to your intuition

ProfWiseman found that 90 per cent of his lucky volunteers trusted their inner voice when it came to relationships and 80 per cent said gut feel was vital in their career choices.

Cognitive psychologist Gary Klein studied firemen and nurses across the United States for their knack in making life-saving decisions in crucial situations.

He found that, for example, intensive care nurses in Miami 'just knew' when a newborn was at risk for sepsis, despite the fact that the early symptoms are extremely subtle.

'Ultimately, it is all about perception and recognition,' he told Fast Company magazine.

In the best-selling book Blink, author Malcolm Gladwell explores the power of rapid cognition and how people can make snap judgements that are ultimately proved right.

3)Expect the best

Playwright Tennessee Williams once said luck is believing that you're lucky. ProfWiseman agrees. He found that while all 400 volunteers experienced setbacks in their lives, the lucky ones dealt with them better.

Lucky people believe that their future is going to be awesome, and this becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy that helps them through difficult times and shapes their relationships with others.

He said: 'Unlucky people often use words like 'this always happens to me' or 'every time I go to the supermarket, I get the slow queue'. There's an absoluteness built into their language which is a mark of their inflexibility.'

ProfWiseman's tip? Spend a few moments each day remembering things that went well and visualise yourself being lucky before an important event.

Interestingly, in a separate online study a few years ago, ProfWiseman found that lucky people tended to carry out superstitious behaviours designed to bring them good luck. These included touching wood, crossing their fingers and carrying a lucky charm.

However, unlucky people believe in superstitions that bring bad luck, like breaking a mirror or walking under a ladder.

4)Turn bad luck into good

Lucky people have more ways to deal with ill fortune. For instance, they imagine how things could be worse or they try not to dwell on it and take control of the situation.

ProfWiseman asked his volunteers to imagine they were in a bank when an armed robber fires a shot and a bullet hits them in the arm. Would this incident be lucky or unlucky?

The unlucky people said it was bad luck that they were in the bank at the wrong time. The lucky people felt the situation could have been much worse.

One commented: 'It's lucky because you could have been shot in the head. Also, you could sell your story to the newspapers and make some money.'

ProfWiseman had his own brush with bad luck when he started out as a magician. He lost his entire bag of tricks while on tour in the US. That night, he bought two packs of cards and went back to his hotel room.

He recalled: 'That night, I found out the true meaning of the saying, necessity is the mother of invention. I worked into the early hours, figuring out new tricks using the material I had on hand.'

Two of the tricks he invented that night were later awarded prizes for their originality.

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so who dares to sae u r unlucky all the time cos blah n blah happens, or lucky cos this and that took place. its all in ur attitude towards dat incident or event. nv believe in luck!

Feb. 25th, 2008

filled wif happiness

finally my jap beginners 1 course is O-V-E-R! such a relief! cant wait to b able to converse, comprehend, write reasonably well in jap! okay, i noe dat takes effort. i really need to buck up on my katakana. love my sensei(teacher in japanese), she gave us so many clues for the un-listenable listening test dat we had! hope to at least pass for dat section! every qn is 2 marks btw! helps..i cdnt catch most of the qns towards the end. jus went by gut feeling. oh well, i will pass, but im actually aiming for at least 80 marks. praying hard i'll b able to achieve dat.

anw, despite my nerve-wrecking test today, i went out on both the wkend nites! haha, i wont hav the guts to do dat when i was in my 3rd yr uni! felt my revision was more productive & effective cos when u noe there's limited time left, u wont waste time dilly dallying in ur revision. u'll focus to zero in to those areas whr u really dunno & u concentrate really hard to get the info into ur HEAD! haha, im not encouraging last min revision, but felt i tend to get complacent when i hav too much time on hand.

sat nite had open cell at vermillion's place! i love this exercise playgrd she had at her condo! there's this little equipment(meant for kids or the elderly) dats called an air walker. its super fun, basically u jus step on it & swing ur legs up & down, as wide as possible. v gd exercise to tone ur thigh muscle! i desperately need dat, so i suggested to vermillion dat i needed to camp here for days!

hmm, it was quite a fun time, gotta noe new pple & the sharing part came as a shock! i thot i will b able to keep quiet the whole time, but ended up having to talk! aiyo, hope i din talk nonsense. cos i tend to do dat when im nervous! oh well, shared sth v expected of me to say. so nth exciting. oh, there's this new person who worked in a company dat dealt wif any fragrance/scent. like the scent of perfumes, food, detergents, toiletries, drinks...... how cool is dat!? but ur poor nose will b suffering!

sun was much more enjoyable! with great company, gd food & cosy seats, wat more can I ask for! my uni clique is horrible okay! or rather only jill, ting & lem! they bully me!! let me show u evidence of wat they did to me!


im behind dat white patch



& when i wanted to avoid dat evil ting's finger, i met wif another tragedy!


classic photo!



this shows "dun ever act smart!" cong ming fan bei cong ming wu! wah, v impressed wif my chi recently! i think continuous studying made my brain working once agn!

anw, i had a really a gd time laughing dat heartily & hardly! u girls made my stressed day destressed. i was undecided bet the unagi set or the tempura udon. & jill happily ordered for me the unagi set. look at how gigantic my bowl is! but the unagi really OISHII!! the udon soup is nice, jus too egg-y for my liking, bet my bad chlorestrol shot up to the max ald. need to start working out those wobbly fats of mine!


my head seems so puny as compared to the bowl!





nice angle & of cos its taken by a superb cam!




looks like its my bdae!



great time to end an outing wif yummy desserts!


my all-time fav ice cream parlour!



PS: we finally manage to hit our high mark for cam-whoring! 63 pics within 2 hrs! click here for the entire album..

thanks for making me temporarily forget my stress + pains + unhappiness & bring joy, love, laughter dat wd last me the entire wk! tho we hardly meet up, its gd to see each other quarterly & to hear of our updates & same old stories we always tease each other wif! haha, & my dear dora, dun forget we r ALLIES!! so stand on my side!!

Feb. 24th, 2008

a time of blabbings

anyone who knew me in my teens will noe dat i used to fancy dasmond koh, cos i listen to his late nite prog every nite while preparing for o lvls. n ever since he left 933, i hardly paid much attention to his tv variety progs. i still will take note which shows he is hosting, but i wont faithfully chase aft them. my frens at dat time will think im mad cos he's jus a dj. n guess wat, i realised someone's crazier than me!! really salute dorcas man! she went all out to bake cupcakes for him on his bdae(last fri, 22feb). u can go to his blog to chk it out..wow, really impressed, & its really sweet of her. think her bf (dunno its current, or in future) will b really well fed! & will prob hafta love sweet stuffs. haha! oh well, this is our dear dorcas.

my maid's gg back to indonesia for 5 days!! sobssss, & its not too gd news dat im staying home for quite a no of days. argh, i dun like to b maid-less. cos im absolutely terrible at doing housework! sigh, mayb i shall do some exercise to burn away the fat dat ive accumulated over the past 3mths of bdae + christmas + cny.

anw, wanna share this super gd dance performance. its done wif a christian song wif it, but trust me, focus on their dance moves, seriously, talented pple all over the world. PS: i think the dancers r koreans! im so awed by them!



i think recently im easily influenced by anyone. prob a sign dat i seriously lack of confidence. sigh, i need answers. i hate staying at home, but at the same time, i need to b home to do up overdue ssk stuffs. im so guilty of proscrastinating, argh. gotta chg dat bad habit. also my incorrigible bathing & slping time. act my slping time is extremely dependent on my bathing time, but i always cant stand bathing so early. there's this inertia in me whenever i need to bathe. no idea y. hafta re-adjust my crazy nite schedule.

tmr's jap test, pls pray hard for me, that everything i dunno wont come out!! jus let me b able to catch the key points during the listening compre & b able to insert the correct particles at the right time & not forget any verbs/nouns/adjectives. helpssssssssss!

also, recently, my frens around me, including myself, isnt exactly in a joyful mood. dats not too gd, gotta pray for breakthroughs. Lord, bring joy back to us & restore us fr any unhappiness dats hindering us fr experiencing ur love & joy!
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Feb. 16th, 2008

a fight to win!

happy valentine's to everyone! was happily working late & had macs(AGN?!) for dinner. shd put a stop to unhealthy fast food. i really dun like it, cos im supposed to lose all the saturated fats i've gained during the past cny wk! anw, broke my clean record on v-day, how frustrating!! ive managed to keep it dat way for the past 9mths & with only 3mths left for my contract, i cdnt avoid it. sigh, oh well, im gg to b v cool abt it. =) its not gg to affect me!

anw, fri was v v busy + tiring. hope had a cny flea mkt cum buffet dinner. was pretty unwilling to come partly due to the fact dat i was unable to b there for my colleague's farewell, also i wanted charmaine to b there cos it'll b a gd chance to catch up wif her, but she wasnt free =((( the kids will b glad to see her too! ah well, was quite moody when i 1st arrived. had to finish up dat fish board dat was for my game. silliest game ever thot of by me!

the kids really willingly throw money at my game stall. i earned $29.65, materials cost abt $5, so my profit was 5 folds!!!! hahahahaha!!!!! my only competitor was the ice cream stall. cos 1 cup is 30 cents, 1 cone is 40cents. my game costs only 10cents, 20cents or 30cents. depending on how many tries they wanna attempt. argh, hope to b able to beat the ice cream stall! i'll bug sam for the exact value. haha, if there's ever gg to b a competition amongst stalls, i will design more interesting & exciting games to make sure I WIN!!!!

jap test is really making me real moody, everything else seems so secondary now, jap jap jap is all dat is my mind! argh, i will study hard for it, left 1 more wk to D-DAY!!! helpsssssss.............getting a pimple outbreak fr all these, sigh! its v rare dat i get such outbreaks, mus b due to stress of all forms, fr all directions! arghs to the core!!

realised not too long ago dat wat excites/turns/interests me is IT gadgets!! stuffs on asia.cnet.com serious makes me drool or covet aft! not v happy dat i wont b able to own 1, cos my bank acct doesnt hav dat ability for me to splurge! sigh, when's fairy godfather coming!!??(the joke me n shih shared) ah well, i need a better paying job! when is it arriving!? sigh!
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Feb. 11th, 2008

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cny was utterly boring, if not for the fact of being able to make use of my single status to get additional income & to b able to play wif my super adorable nieces & nephews, i wd hav attempted to take this gd chance to go overseas wif shih-cos she also dun celebrate cny so elaborately. ah well, i definitely will at least go abroad once in my lifetime to avoid the new yr! hate it cos boredom creeps in on the 2nd day & its not fun when u hav NO ONE to go out wif u & no whr to go to!

anw, this brand new yr(lunar) has been peaceful(no hectic visitation schedules), shiok(5 days off work!), slothful(get to slp & wake up w/o the aid of the stupid irritating alarm) & ultra fun(the bbq wif my closest frens)! unhappy incidents dat happened in the past yr will b gone & this new one lies many exciting yet uncertain challenges for me to face & overcome!

the highlight of the cny hol was tonite! thankfully we all made an effort to block up our schedules for this gathering! hafta thank wei for her bbq pit & her mom for buying & providing most of the stuffs! anw, kaishu & michelle joined us, & wow whee, nearly one-fifth of sec2D was there, haha!!! sounds alot but not really, jus 7 of us! hahahah! my sec4B clique's bigger(10 lor!) okay, better not sidetrack, but this is the 1st time i attempted to plan a bbq session for our gatherings. we used to wanna hav 1, but it din turn out well, got postponed until nobody rem to plan one. so given my talent in organising gatherings, i boldly initiated a bbq for our yearly cny gathering! & everything was decided within a few msgs! i seriously think ssk & hope trained me really well in orgainising such things. haha!

anw, i arrived ard 445, helped wei to start the fire & let me praise & encourage myself a bit. i single handedly start & maintained the fire! tho it took VERY long to get a proper, bbq-ready fire(roughly took 2hrs), it was still a superb achievement for me cos i NEVER once succeeded starting a fire at hope camps! its like how embarrassing in front of kids when my fire's always the last to start! ah well, such things require experience. haha! the chicken was really well cooked, no extreme burnt skin yet inside uncooked sort, no outrageous fire cos of dripping oil, no burnt hotdogs! super amazing, im simply impressed wif myself, nv knew i cd start a fire! okay, officially declaring this: jess can only cook at the bbq pit!! leave me out of the kitchen, haha!!

our fellowship was really gd, talked abt alot of stuffs. like wat kind of jobs des & xian who's graduating soon intend to search for, some of their lovelife updates, michelle's super exciting impending cabin crew career wif the most coveted airline, wei's eye candies at her workplace, hui's potential admirer. & our usual bitchy, gossipy small talks! u guys seriously made my day! looking forward to our next gathering, hope to b soon!!

sadly we forgot to take a pic or rather, i forgot to suggest to take a pic! argh, so rare dat we can meet up & i forgot to capture this significant moment! arhhhhhhhh!!! i noe the twins if they r reading this will prob b laughing to themselves cos they're glad no pic was taken! sigh...

1 gathering successfully executed, yippees! but there's work tmr, strangely, monday blues arent creeping in as yet. i think its cos im meeting another bunch of v close frens for dinner, sth which im really looking forward to. foresee it'll b another successful gathering! thumbs UP & a pat on the back for me!!!
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